Enjoy your Mistakes

Mistakes = Success in the making

Is a mistake something to be enjoyed? Do mistakes have the potential for amusement? Ya see, oftentimes, mistakes are automatically perceived as negative by the person making the mistake as well as external observers. This act is a human commonality because it is a judgmental perspective. Automatically, it takes the side of something not supposed to happen or an event being replaced with a negative substitute. However, if one observes nonjudgmentally, one will conclude again and again that there is no such thing as a coincidence.

Every mistake made, every failure recorded in one's DNA,  every "Ah shit" is supposed to happen at the exact time it happens. Through observation detached from the observer,  which is you, analysis without personal judgment, this can be a very enlightening moment in time.

Mistakes are meant to be enjoyed with the same attention as successes. The tragedy and comedy of life are what make it interesting. An adventure to be savored for it is through the mistakes that one gets the motivation to continue on the journey, the opposition to one's desire for the treasure. Failures are essential to the evolution of one's consciousness. It is the judgment of these mistakes and failures that gives victory to one's humanity. The victory of your humanity results in the amplification of your ego, that voice inside that tells you failure is really what you are. Telling you failure is your destiny and end goal.

Giving into this agenda puts more emotional burdens on you that are necessary hindering your self-realization. Transcend your humanity and accept your spiritual nature. Your spirituality aids you in not allowing the voice of your ego, the song of this physical body, to weigh you down for evolution requires detachment, withdrawal, and LETTING GO. As a child, you were less inclined to take things personally for your only desire was to create. You did not look at yourself or anything as a failure. As you were setting up your tea party with your dolls and stuffed animals, if you accidentally dropped your doll on the floor, you didn't judge yourself and say "I'm clumsy". As you picked up your doll, you automatically deemed it a part of the whole grand scheme of the party. "Don't worry Dolly, I got you. Of course we can't have a party with you! Here, let me fix your hair." Your innate response was to include what could be deemed a mistake as a part of the story. This portrayed the mindset of things we use to motivate each other "Keep going no matter what". "Everything happens for a reason". "Look on the bright side." These are all programmable sayings that can bring you back to that state of child-like innocence. Being humble to the causes and effects of life, seeing them as teachers, not perpetrators. Keeping an attitude of enjoyment despite what it seems.

Understand the voice of misjudgment was TAUGHT to you through trauma, through being told no, through the interruption of your imagination, through the repetitive denial of your imagination's credibility by others as well as you. Through repetition, through the trauma placed onto you time after time, the voice no longer needed to come from the outside. You perpetuated it in yourself. Remember this, you have control of the voice inside. You just have to believe you do. Once you can convince yourself that you are in control of everything in your life and you are responsible for your reality, you will regain that enjoyment. As a child, you didn't deny the responsibility of molding your reality, pulling from your imagination without hesitation. You did not care who was looking nor did you even know what a mistake was until someone told you what it was and you accepted the definition as well as the connotation. Again I say, smile through your mistakes. Narrate yourself through them. Make your mistakes the plot twist of your story. Make a damn playlist for them if you want. This is your life, there are no rules when it comes to creating your life. 

Evolve. Create. Enjoy.